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For two people to really commit to a relationship is a pretty rare occasion. I mean, real commitment. Fights, cheating, lying, leaving, returning, all of it.

The thing with real relationships are this. They are few, they are necessary, and they are oh so difficult to maintain. Well, some of them.

I have a friend who is self destructive to the max. When I met her, I knew it. And now, 5 years later, it has only evolved and worsened. I am her friend. And being someones friend is not a selfish bargain. In fact, true friendship comes down to how selfless you can possibly be.
Pride aside, what can you do for them. Contribute. By being there.

"Being there"

Even if for no reason.

My sister does this this for me. She has no reason to let me stumble in her house at 4 in the morning, but she lets me. She doesnt kiss my ass. She tells me if I'm being irrational, and I tell her when shes overbearing.

I like where we are. I know it will only become greater. There's only one thing that makes old friends, and that is time.

To give your time to someone is the greatest gift. Really.

I believe this.